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Forgot your password? Hubby and I agree that playing alone, particularly when it is more than just quick sex, has a thrill all its own - like dating. We have even gone separate ways on occasion for weekends or brought along our lover on a business trip or seminar in a nice location when the spouse couldn't make it.

It's fun, but when the time is over we are ready, and it is so nice and thrillingto get back home. It goes back to what I think is a human dichotomy - we all want the security of a home and a mate while wanting the thrill of the new sexual relations. Love and understanding in the first allows the second.

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As for emotional bonds, they can develop, but that can be a good thing. Hubby says that if he were to get hit by a bus it is reassuring to know that Red would be there for me. And besides, I have varying emotional attachment to other people I don't sleep with, so that's not the issue. Being able to satisfy the need for sexual variety in a loving marital relationship actually removes once reason for the big breakup.

Are you trying to make logical connections here; overnight swapping enabled polyamory which enabled separation which enabled divorce? Or are you simply laying out a time-line for events in your life? Not projecting on anyone else, just stating how it worked out for us. not typical. Your own may vary, as they say. I think the best combination of advice is understand the motivations behind the ask, and be aware of the possible risks. We're an open couple, rather than a swinging couple, and we don't do this. We both always come home. We just feel its important to keep the intimacy of sleeping together to just us.

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But thats us. I can easily see this both ways Harmless fun that just fulfills a fantasy, or a slippery slope that le to drama. Only you can really know which situation you are likely to find yourself in. But I think in this case a "yellow light" might want to be viewed as a "red light" if you see what I'm saying If something just sort of feels "off", you should probably pass this by.

When I lived in this area New England 30 years ago, there were what was known as "key parties". I never was in a position to attend one, but I gather that at the end of the party, the womens house keys were thrown in a bowl and the guys drew keys to see who they were going home with. My understanding was that this was an overnight happening. The lady I was married to at the time thought that this was horrible, but a woman I married later thought it was a really fun idea. Unfortunately, when I was with her, there were not any such parties, nor were we able to find any compatible couples to play with.

Over the years I have know a few couples that I think would have been fun to swap with for the night or weekend. Whether sex was involved or not. They were just fun people. Neither of us have felt the kind of "bonding" that some of the other members describe.

No more bonding, in any case, than happens quite naturally when you look into a play partners smiling eyes while you are belly-to-belly. Trust your instincts on this one. If you are earnestly able to say to yourself both before and after, this is just for funyou'll be OK. A full-night swap of partners with another couple has been a fantasy of ours, though have never acted on it. Since our own marital bond is secure and unbreakable or so we think why would an all night swap with another couple's mate for play and intercourse would present a particular hazard as so many seem to think and caution against?

I liked the comment that said this is a "higher level" of swinging. For the Swinger wife forums. Swinging. couples this could just another step in the process. It might lead to a better relationship, and it might work out well. If it is a higher level of swinging, I'm not ready for it.

My advice is alway the same: do it, see how it feels; and, if you don't like it, don't do it again. Of course, that assumes that you're two mature adults who can work out any problems that might arise. We did something similar, but it was only one of us: Eve.

I really didn't think I would have a problem with her spending the weekend with a guy -- after all, I'm not the jealous type and we had yet to find a situation we weren't comfortable with. We even like a certain amount of intimacy during our encounters with other partners like, the more the better. Yet, Swinger wife forums. Swinging. disliked it almost from the beginning. There are some things that I don't want to share with other men.

Oddly enough, it's not sex, but it's the little things like getting ready together when we're at the hotel and about to go out for the evening. Or, coming back from dinner and relaxing before going out to a swing club. These are the things no one sees but us. These are the truly intimate things that make up our marriage. Only I know what Eve is like at those times, and only she knows what I'm like.

So, I wouldn't do it. I used to think I would, but now I know I wouldn't. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't do it. Just be careful and stop if it bothers you. We did it over a weekend 3 nights!

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It was great, though a bit weird at times. We are great social friends still, though have decided not to continue the sexual part of our connection. I think the motivation of their interest is the most important thing to consider here. I can see where it could be like a more simple separate room swap. One where afterwards you reconnect with your mate, talk, laugh, and have serious lovemaking.

However one or both of the other couple may have issues with ideas in their marriage and want a more intimate relationship. Make sure that your bond is strong enough with your mate to stay safe and you should turn away any unwelcome relationship. Maybe you should openly question their reasons for the request. We are open but Swinger wife forums. Swinging. up together each night after a meet up. We have done overnight swapping many times with a couple we have known for many years.

All four of us are very secure in our marriages and are very comfortable with exchanging partners for the whole night. Usually when we meet we will play all together as a foursome first and then Brian will go with P to the spare bedroom while Jo stays with J in the master. When I Brian am alone in bed with P we play together before we go to sleep. It is quite erotic to wake up in the morning alongside a lady who is not my wife, knowing that Jo is doing the same with J in the ading room. For us all it adds to the Swinger wife forums.

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Now this isn't that big of a deal for an hour or so but just imagine it being all night and waking up to someone you aren't that attracted to in the morning? In reading these posts I remembered a lot of sexual partners that I enjoyed but wouldn't want to wake up with. But, on the other hand, I sure remember a lot that I'd have enjoyed those pleasures of waking up in the middle of the night or just waking up to spooning in the morning with.

I'd say it has to be reserved for those rare times you find that perfect couple for you and your spouse This is sort of an aside, but why are we calling it "WIFE swapping", a la the title of this thread? Aren't we past the point where we think of this as the husbands swapping wives, like wives are somehow secondary, and think of it as husbands AND wives swapping?

Sorry to be strident as if I don't do it regularly. But every time I see this thread the title chafes me. It's an old term, Fuse, that hasn't been successfully replaced with "swinging. Alura and I used to call it "spouse swapping" because "swinging" is a euphemism which didn't seem to accurately define what we were doing, either. We have done it and still do it.

We have a few great couples we play with and have known a long time. I guess just the right people and situation. It works very well for all of us. I quite agree with The Fuse. When I first saw this thread I was taken aback by the reference to "wife swapping" as if we were back in the 70's. However old habits take along time to die and this one, with all its social connotations, will probably take even longer to die.

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Both of us have been in situations before we were married where the relationship was purely sexual- and both of us were able to walk away from those relationships without remorse when the other person started to get too attached or too possessive and we've done it in the LS as well with close friends.

Before we got married I met this extremely sexy woman.

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I would see her from time to time and she would just captivate me- she dripped sex, class, and mystery at the same time. We eventually hooked up, had sex, and then went home separately. I was even MORE entranced- and wanted more. The second time we hooked up, I spent the night. At some point in the early morning she got up to use the bathroom- and let out an obscene, wet sounding fart that echoed throughout the apartment.

All the mystery, class, and sexiness that captivated me were GONE in that instant. I never slept with her again, and I had nightmares as well as a good story for months. What need or want do any of you have that would make this experience something more than what you would get with a separate room swap? This is the red flag I have here with your situation.

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